While I don't think that any grinder is going to be the "perfect" one for each individual (I'm the guy who takes a brand new grinder and makes minor modifications to suit my own tastes/needs), I can tell you that I've owned a KMG for over a dozen years. I have never had an issue with it, and while you might not recognize it immediately, the one thing that you will get with a KMG, versus EVERY other grinder I have ever used/touched/repaired, or otherwise had contact with, is the customer service that Rob Frink provides. In my mind, and experience, the KMG is just a "tank" of a grinder, that is simple in design, and works very well. (and keeps on working).
I've had experience with Wilmont grinders, and while I don't mean to "bad mouth" them on a public forum, my experiences with them have not been good. IF you were to purchase one, the first thing that I feel is absolutely necessary to change/replace is the belt tensioning....that tension spring simply does not work well at all (those machines with the "strut" may be different). I have a friend who purchased two of the TAG-101s, and a week after he got them, called me to help him "fix" them.....on one, the belt simply would not track, and on the other when pressure was applied to whatever was being ground, the belt would "jump" off one side of the other. After looking over the machines closely, I discovered that on one, none of the "wheels" were aligned, and on the other the tooling arm socket(s) were not square with the rest of the machine. I tried to get him to return the machines, but he didn't want to go through the "hassles" and insisted we try to "fix" them. Aligning all the wheels only took an hour or so, but I did have to shim some bolts, and used spacers on the platen roller and contact wheels to get the machine to track/run in an acceptable manner...... but I spent nearly a full day trying to "square up" the tooling arm socket(s). I also changed out the belt tensioning systems to a compression spring similar to what the KMG has, and that in itself made a huge difference.
Had I purchased those machines, I would have returned them for a refund and purchased another type/brand of grinder. It might have been just a "bad day" when they produced those particular machines, but what I saw, and what I had to do to a couple of "new" machines, left a very sour taste in my mouth.
OK, all that being said, I'm sure there are folks who have had great experiences with both machines, but as with most, I have to come at things through the lens of my own experiences.
When it comes to variable speed, as far as I'm concerned, if you are going to spend the money on a grinder and don't get a VFD, you're doing yourself in injustice. Early in my career I ran a single speed machine, and when I finally purchase a variable/VFD, I found myself wishing I had done it LONG before. A VFD/variable drive on a grinder simply gives you far more versatility then you could ever achieve with a single speed machine.
Another thing to consider is resale value. I've not seen how the resale value on the Wilmont grinders is, but I do know that a 10 year old KMG will bring nearly the same money as a brand new one.... meaning that if there is a point in time when you decide to sell it, a KMG will bring nearly the same money you paid for it new. My personal opinion is that between the two, there is simply no contest. I would go with the KMG and never look back.